Saturday, 4 February 2012

Storytelling Sunday.......................but baby it's cold outside.

Good Morning and welcome to February's edition of Storytelling Sunday. An event brought to you in conjunction with Sian ''From High in the Sky''. If you are new to this event, on the first Sunday of the month many international bloggers come together and tell a story of something which happened to them either in words or pictures, or both. Sian is our coordinator and so if you would like to read the other stories please pop over and see the links at the bottom of her story.

Yesterday it snowed, alot. It was all I could do to get back into our little hospital compound in my car, even in first gear poor Izzie was having a hard time. The cats were not that amused either especially Holly who thought it was rather demeaning for a 17 year old lady to have to go outside in it. Willow on the other hand was slightly more interested in leaving her paw prints in the car park.

Anyway, todays story comes to you with the support of the letter 'C' which is the name of the young lady I would like to tell you about. The letter will maintain her anonymity. I first met this young lady when she about 2 weeks old. She had been born at 28 weeks gestation and she was the first premature baby I looked after right the way through to discharge. In those days, incubators were much less moveable than they are now, these days they have mega-double glazing, special doors which stop the oxygen levels dropping, rubber bits to hold ventilator tubing and drips and are generally much more state of the art. Back in 1988, when this young lady was new born, the incubators were pretty old fashioned but they kept the baby's warm and safe.

I had always wanted to be a midwife but as I came towards the end of my general nursing training I became interested in special care so I spent several weeks working on my days off on the special care baby unit at The London Hospital. It gave me the confidence to apply for a position on the NICU in Reading and so in February 1988 I found myself working as a newly qualified staff nurse. To say it was scarey is an understatement. My second day, I was looking after a baby with so many tubes in I didn't know whether I was coming or going. I nearly threw in the towel.


This photograph is not of any baby I cared for but was a picture available on Google images to retain confidentiality and protection.


However, watching the smallest of babies growing and developing under such tough circumstances was incredible. I have held babies small enough to fit into the palm of my hand and watched babies who we thought wouldn't survive, miraculously pull through sometimes will only the will of God and their parents. It was truly an amazing part of my life to be a small part of the lives of so many precious babies who now like 'C' are grown up and doing incredible things with their lives. Oh did I forget to mention this particular premmie is now a lawyer?

In total I have worked in Reading, Cambridge, Southampton and Salisbury NICU's over a 13 years period and saw and learned a huge amount about love, resilience and courage. Looking back, I had some of the best years of my nursing career caring for these babies and their families.

If you would like to read about other babies cared for in Reading then go to this link where parents share some of their children's stories.

15 comments:

  1. Great story, Jo! It's lovely to share some of your experiences with those precious tiny people. Wonderful to hear that "C" is doing such fab things with her life - I should think you are really quite proud of her!

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  2. How wonderful to have been part of someone's life like this, helping them to grow into all they could become! I wish there was a special award for you!

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  3. Jo I can just imagine you were a wonderful nurse for those tiny babies, they were lucky to have someone as caring as you looking after them.

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  4. tiny tiny miracles! I was only thinking the other day that the first babies I delivered could be having babies of their own now! Yikes! xxx

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  5. I'm sure you're held in a very special place in the hearts of the families who you helped through those scary times

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  6. You've made my heart swell, a truly lovely thing to her on storytelling Sunday xx

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  7. How wonderful to know that you've helped so many in desperate times - what a worthwhile thing to do :)

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  8. What a great story - I've learned more about you and had a peek inside your world. Love it!
    Rinda

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  9. Jo, this is a fantastic story - a real love story for February, in a very special way. I love it! I'm going to link you up right now :)

    It's always a pleasure to see you at Storytelling Sunday

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  10. Such a special story for the month of February. In helping to bring a baby into this world and nursing it to life, makes you very special too.

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  11. A great story, you must feel so proud to have given these very special babies such love and care x

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  12. You have had such a rewarding job. Thanks for sharing a small part of it with us.

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  13. What a lovely story, and a rewarding job you do

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  14. Oh what a hard but amazing job - a friend's little one had open heart surgery last month at 13 weeks and this month appears to have taken on a new lease of life. But there were too many photos that looked like the one above. Thank you for doing what you do.

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  15. Very moving Jo - thank goodness we have skilled NHS staff to care for such tiny babies!

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Hello and thank you so much for stopping by. It is always a pleasure to read the comments I receive and to meet new friends. I try and reply to comments on friend's blogs as much as possible. I hope you have enjoyed reading my blog and look forward to seeing you here again soon. Love Jo xxx